Stuck between 2 guys?? i need help?

ok so i've known my current bf for 2 yrs and started goin out last year [[2008]] on dec 8 and everything was goin good but like recently its been super rocky in the relationship, like we've been arguin over stupid stuff and not to mention the "rules" he never mentioned before, like i cant go to any parties if he doesnt go and he ddnt want me to have any guy friends nor talk to them even though i've knwn them for yrs, like he's just super jealous and over protective to the max. on the other hand, i met this super amazing guy this month and he's the exact opposite of my current bf and half of me wants to be with him but the other half doesnt want to break my bf's heart, but my bf has nothing going for him, and had said recently that he ddnt even want to go to college, idk, it only seems like im pitying him because he's nvr broken up with a girl, they alway break up with him, i love him and all but i knw that in the future its rare that we will still b together....idk what to do